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Raregivers100: Honoring 100 Changemakers in Rare and Chronic Disease

Meet the Raregivers100, a global tribute to 100 rare disease changemakers; individuals who are shaping the future of rare and chronic disease awareness, advocacy, and caregiving. From globally recognized voices to grassroots changemakers, these honorees are helping bring visibility, dignity, and action to communities too often left in the shadows.

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Noticing Changes: Caring for Yourself in the Midst of the Unknown

Stage 1 of the Raregivers Emotional Journey Map is noticing changes. You begin to see something shifting with your loved one, and suddenly, you find yourself navigating unfamiliar territory. What was your first experience like? Did you feel overwhelmed, frightened, or unsure of what to do next?

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When You Feel Spread Too Thin

Becoming a full-time caregiver can stretch you in ways you never imagined. You are caring for your rare loved one, trying to maintain healthy relationships with other family members, managing appointments and responsibilities, and somehow finding a way to care for yourself.

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Self-Care Begins With Awareness

Self-care begins with mindfulness. Self-care and awareness are interwoven. When you are aware and oriented toward caring for yourself, you begin to notice what you need. You notice when you are tired, when you need some water, when you need to eat, or when you need to stand up and go outside to stretch your legs.

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Who Are You Beneath Caregiving?

For many caregivers, it can be difficult to imagine what life will feel like when caregiving changes or comes to an end. When so much of your identity, energy, and daily life has been shaped around caring for someone you love, there can be a profound sense of uncertainty about who you are beyond that role

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How To Take Care of Yourself as a Caregiver

How do you take care of yourself as a caregiver? Prioritizing yourself while caring for someone you love takes intention. You are often hypervigilant, practical, and constantly problem-solving. You are the one figuring out what to do when your rare child’s ride falls through, anticipating what might happen next, and thinking several steps ahead because you can and because you have to.

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Acceptance: Learning to Live With What Is

Acceptance is not a single moment. As caregivers, we move through many stages of acceptance over the arc of our caregiving journey. We may accept a diagnosis, then struggle to accept what that diagnosis means for the life of our Rare family member.

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The Sibling Reality

When one child has a Rare disease, the whole family is affected, including the siblings. Neurotypical siblings often learn early that life may not unfold the way it does in other families. Plans get canceled, attention is redirected, and the needs of the child with the Rare disease understandably take center stage.

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Fill Your Tank With Self-Compassion

What would it be like to be a true friend to yourself? As a caregiver, you spend so much of your time offering love, attention, advocacy, and care to someone you love that your own needs can easily fall to the bottom of the list. Receiving your own loving attention is a gift. Taking even a few minutes each day to turn toward yourself with compassion can be a way of filling your own tank and building resilience. Give yourself some grace and some space

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Your Needs Matter, Too

As caregivers, it can be incredibly easy to put your own needs last. There is always something that needs to be done, someone who needs your attention, another appointment to schedule, another question to answer.

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Boundaries As Self-Care

Boundaries are important because they hold us. This was the topic of our conversation this week in the Women’s Empowerment Circle, where we explored what makes setting  boundaries difficult and how they actually serve and support us.

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The Precipice Of Uncertainty

As caregivers, we often live with a quiet companion that few people can fully understand: anticipatory grief. While continuing to coordinate appointments, medications, therapies, and the many moving pieces of a medicalized life, we also carry the unspoken awareness that the future may hold difficult decisions.

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