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Raregivers100: Honoring 100 Changemakers in Rare and Chronic Disease

Meet the Raregivers100, a global tribute to 100 rare disease changemakers; individuals who are shaping the future of rare and chronic disease awareness, advocacy, and caregiving. From globally recognized voices to grassroots changemakers, these honorees are helping bring visibility, dignity, and action to communities too often left in the shadows.

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Acceptance: Learning to Live With What Is

Acceptance is not a single moment. As caregivers, we move through many stages of acceptance over the arc of our caregiving journey. We may accept a diagnosis, then struggle to accept what that diagnosis means for the life of our Rare family member.

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The Sibling Reality

When one child has a Rare disease, the whole family is affected, including the siblings. Neurotypical siblings often learn early that life may not unfold the way it does in other families. Plans get canceled, attention is redirected, and the needs of the child with the Rare disease understandably take center stage.

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Fill Your Tank With Self-Compassion

What would it be like to be a true friend to yourself? As a caregiver, you spend so much of your time offering love, attention, advocacy, and care to someone you love that your own needs can easily fall to the bottom of the list. Receiving your own loving attention is a gift. Taking even a few minutes each day to turn toward yourself with compassion can be a way of filling your own tank and building resilience. Give yourself some grace and some space

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Your Needs Matter, Too

As caregivers, it can be incredibly easy to put your own needs last. There is always something that needs to be done, someone who needs your attention, another appointment to schedule, another question to answer.

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Boundaries As Self-Care

Boundaries are important because they hold us. This was the topic of our conversation this week in the Women’s Empowerment Circle, where we explored what makes setting  boundaries difficult and how they actually serve and support us.

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The Precipice Of Uncertainty

As caregivers, we often live with a quiet companion that few people can fully understand: anticipatory grief. While continuing to coordinate appointments, medications, therapies, and the many moving pieces of a medicalized life, we also carry the unspoken awareness that the future may hold difficult decisions.

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Tend Your Own Garden: Sustainable Caregiving Begins with You

As caregivers, we become experts at tending to everyone else's needs. We manage appointments, medications, insurance battles, therapies, and countless moments of advocacy, often without realizing that our own lives have become an afterthought. Imagine your life as a garden.

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Creating Strong Teams Through Heart-Based Communication

Creating a strong caregiving team begins with skillful, heart-based communication. It starts with being in relationship with yourself, knowing what you need, recognizing what your loved one needs, and sensing what the larger team needs as well. From this grounded place, you can make clear requests, ask for support with openness, and invite collaboration rather than conflict.

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Are You Feeling Spread Thin?

Feeling spread thin was a common theme in our group this week. If you are caring for a spouse or child with a Rare disease, you likely know what it feels like when everyone needs something from you at once.

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