4th of July: A Reflection for Rare Disease Caregivers

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For many caregivers, holidays can be complicated—and the Fourth of July is no exception. While others are enjoying fireworks and carefree celebrations, caregivers of those with rare, chronic, or complex conditions often find themselves feeling out of step with the world around them.

At Raregivers, we see you—and we’re here to support you through moments of joy, overwhelm, and everything in between.

The Reality of Holidays for Caregivers

Whether you’re managing care routines, navigating behavioral challenges, or simply feeling the emotional weight of it all, holidays can highlight how different your reality is from those around you.

For caregivers in the rare disease space, “taking a break” isn’t always an option. The mental load continues. The emotional labor doesn’t pause. And while others may celebrate freedom, your day may still revolve around structure, vigilance, and responsibility.

Small Acts of Self-Care

Even if your July 4th looks different, it still matters. And so do you.

If you can, take a few moments for yourself today:

  • Step outside and soak in a bit of sunshine

  • Drink a glass of water and breathe deeply

  • Find a few quiet minutes to clear your head

  • Remind yourself that it’s okay to rest, even briefly

These small actions aren’t just luxuries—they’re essential for sustaining your strength and emotional health as a caregiver.

You Are Not Alone

Many rare disease caregivers experience isolation, especially during public holidays and events. That’s why community matters.

Whether it’s through online support groups, peer circles, or attending a Raregivers event, connecting with others who understand can make all the difference.

You deserve to be surrounded by people who lift you up, who see the invisible work you do, and who remind you that your role is not only essential—but honorable.

Learn more about our caregiver support programs: www.raregivers.global

Cristol O'Loughlin

Cristol Barrett O’Loughlin is a seasoned executive and storyteller. As Founder and CEO of Raregivers™ (formerly ANGEL AID), Cristol is fiercely passionate about providing social, emotional, physical and financial relief to Raregivers™ ~ patients, caregivers, and professionals who hold both hope and grief in the same human heart. A former UCLA instructor, she co-founded advertising firm, The Craftsman Agency, and is humbled to have advised global brands such as NBA, Walt Disney Company, 20th Century Fox, Microsoft, Cisco and Google. During her tenure at IBM Life Sciences, she helped accelerate advancements in cheminformatics and data-driven biotechnology. Watch her TEDx talk ‘Caring for the Caregivers’ at https://www.raregivers.global/tedx and the ‘Raregivers LIVE’ broadcast from Microsoft to 12 cities around the world.

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